Mistrust and suspicious

Hello, peepos. How are you guys doing? Right on the track? :)

Well, as my post title suggests, I would be talking about about mistrust and suspicious between friends, parents and also boy-girl relationship.

Let's start off with trust issue with the most common of all, the friends. Who in this world can live without friends? All of them would yearn to have a friend with them. What happens if the trust between friends are broken? Trust is given, and gained. However, there are times when people tend to not cherish the trust. There are those who did it on purpose and also those by accident. Who would be the one that did it by accident? I personally believe that everyone deserve a second chance. A chance was given on the first time, taking it as an accident. What happen if the same thing happen over and over again? It can't be an accident, no longer one in this sense. Forgiving aren't a long time solution, the best would be talk things out. Find the root of the problems, is it because of different stand? Is it because of different mindset? Things definitely would not go the way we expected but understanding would do. In friendship, i believe that if you have any doubts, do thrash things out. There is no point about asking anyone outside of this friendship, it is just causing more suspicious. At this rate, the friendship could easily be destroyed because it simply isn't strong enough to substain any damages to be done to it. Not to forget, friendship is not a token for betting, not something you could had put it on the edge of the peak, unless you would like to lose the friendship.

"WHERE HAD YOU BEEN?!" Does this sounds familiar to you? This is the question that most of us had been faced with the parents. Parents' trust, it is hard to earn but easily to break. There are times when we felt that when we spoke the truth, they refused to believe but when we lied, they believe every single word we said. Why? They had their own thinkings, and they find it hard to believe when the words that you had said, it doesn't matched their thoughts, and thus they would suspect you lying off to them. I know some parents would actually start reading off their kids' messages but doesn't it caused the kids to feel even negative towards the parents? Children would go through a stage of rebellious moment, such as lying to the parents. If these aren't handled carefully, the child would drift further apart. Parents' trust, their attention, their time are all important to the kids. No one would like to get scolded but instead, all teenagers like me, are just asking for a peaceful day out together. It is just that day, going outdoor, watch a short movie, but definitely not the type that parents would be suspecting you having a boyfriend, and kept on scolding you. Parents with too many restrictions may not seems to be benefiting the child. Let's have a scenario: Parent A is always restricting the child from trying new things, protecting the child from many people. In the end, the child one day would still had to be an adult but he/she doesn't understand how the world would go about and would often not understand how did the things work in this way. Through this, the child would had a lot more to learn when he/she is older.

Boy-girl relationship, the last of all before this naggy post is finally ending. Well, trust is definitely important in this relationship. I bet boys wouldn't want a girlfriend who suspect you daily that you are flirting with whichever girl and so on. A girl's trust is not easily earned but it depends on how the boy treat the girl. No girls like the boyfriend lying to them, so take caution, boys. Girls are usually oversensitive, they tend to overthink because they did not want their feelings to be hurt. Trust issues are extrmely the main point. If there is no trust between the couple, arguments and quarrels are all it is going to be in this relationship. Boys, think before you act. You might not think that what you are doing would hurt the girl but you never know how the girl thinks. Girls, just don't be overly-suspecting. It would really harm the relationship, because no one would want to figure out your worries every single day, not even your parents.

FINALLY THIS POST HAD ENDED. Goodnight, peepos. I am going to turn in early as I was tired out these few days. Lastly, a selfie of myself and check out my instagram: @twlre and also twitter!

My next update would either be on my prelims or my buys that I had purchased over these two months :)